Where The Black Men Are

See...the only people on here who are saying stop bashing black men are the ones already married. This is what black women do, they develop this mentally, "I got mine, you got to get yours." However, I promise you if they were single they would be singing the song that majority of black women are singing right now. Now don't get me wrong I agree some balck women have issues that stem from childhood and bad relationships. However, the fact remains that the pickens are slim. Now blackmen have this thing now where you do as I say or you will be alone. This is crap.

Posted at 8:29AM on February 10th 2009 by Mimi

Black men aren't the only choice for black women. I love all flavors. In the past I have dated a white man, a korean man and a mexican man. I am not trying to disrespect black men in anyway. I am just saying it's 2009 and black men aren't our only choice.

Posted at 7:57PM on February 9th 2009 by Hannah Starr

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Posted at 7:23PM on February 7th 2009 by jklsa

Ladies, please! I am so sick of reading and hearing about generalizations of black men. I am a black woman married to a black man for 15 years. Many of my friends are married to wonderful black men as well. Have u ever thought that may be YOU ARE looking in the wrong place! You can date whomever you want but to degrade the black man in general is silly and counter-productive.

Posted at 11:36PM on February 6th 2009 by CreoleYaya

i am not gonna lie, i am so desparate for a man i dont know what to do anymore, i am very attractive and still single. any suggestions lady.i been single for 9 yrs and i am 26

Posted at 9:20PM on February 6th 2009 by tata

thats a shame

Posted at 12:59PM on February 4th 2009 by lopu

black women u need to staret dating out

Posted at 12:03AM on February 2nd 2009 by gjk

I am a 55+ woman and I am beginning to think that there is no such thing as an "IBM." I am not an ideal black woman. But I refuse to lower my standards...a Christian, an intellectual, a lover of the arts, and a great sense of humor.

Posted at 2:37AM on January 31st 2009 by Deborah

Interesting list of places to meet black men. I believe you can meet a man anywhere. Are you ready to receive him? Rekaya Gibson, Author The Food Temptress

Posted at 1:40AM on January 31st 2009 by Rekaya

ladies come to dc their are plenty of fine brothers here profwssional too. but watch out a lot are on the dl. look stright in public but when u get with them they are so gay! watch out ladies there every where

Posted at 6:32PM on January 29th 2009 by ghj