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My best friend is white and is married to a blk woman. My Pastor is white and married to a blk woman. NO Problem. Date who you want to date. Be free. But stop putting blk men in a category in which men in general should be apart of.

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By the way RERE! I was referring to my own situation when i talked about MY child's mother being lazy, living off me and the state. im not going to blame the next woman for the first womans doings. Appearently some of the men youve come in contact with have done you dirty. Dont blame the rest of us.

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We really do care more than you think about looks. Thats just the first attraction. Sometimes! Your voice might be the first thing he hears. Most men these days to be honest arent worth much. Ill give you that much. But not all men fit that category.

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Do you women see what you're doing? Stop putting blk men in a catagory by itself. Its Men in general. when i say WE, im talking about men as a whole and not just blk men. WE (and this comment doesnt apply to all men, but the majority)dont see color first.

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Negative generalizations? First off, i create an opinion about women based on their individual personalities. It has nothing to do with how i feel about 1 particular female. What man did you dirty? It wasnt me! regagless of what oyu may think as an individual woman, all men are not bad!

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I was wondering when the blackmen who love to make negative generalizations about black women would show up. AJ you are right on time. BLACK WOMEN PLEASE START DATING OTHER RACES. YOU ARE NOT THE PROBLEM.

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AJ-The first thing that black men see is skin tone.

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CreoleYaya-Your post is silly and counter-productive. What are your suggestions? What is the purpose of your comment? If black women (all 70%) are looking in the wrong place, then where should they go? So you mean that 70% of black women have issues? Aren't you making generalizations as well? Your post is rooted in self-righteousness. I guess black women are not perfect like you are.

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