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TOO BEE: Its your sad perspective that's keeping you single. im single not gay or on the dl and will date any race of woman that i choose..If you think negative you will see as such. Now tell me you haven't turned down a quality brotha before. Everyone isnt compatible. Sometimes its a matter of attitude ajustments. and by the way,every single black woman (or any woman) isn't relationship material.

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Just to clarify something, when I say that I dont advocate dating outside of your race means Im perfectly fine with interracial dating just focus on finding the right person. at the end of the day,people are people before race, employment etc.

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Whats up with all of this "black women date outside of your race?" I dont care who you date and I dont advocate dating outside of your race,because race isnt the issue,its the person you choose. for those of you. dating someone white, latino, asian etc isnt the answer. character is the issue,but I see some folks folks focus on the wrong things and still get the same results.

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fix the site, you can never view first page unless you post

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just live your life

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Ladies, we are all children of God. So, expand your dating pool and openess and date men from all backgrounds (colors/ethnicities). With that said, inner reflection (prayer, meditation, yoga, exercise, leisurely walks in the park) can also provide you with balance and peace and guide you to that man meant for you.

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men with kids are the same ask men without kids, the most important thing that one should consider is the love he have for u. mistake came be in anyobodies side but we try that it will not repeat itself again. i belief if ones meet up with someone that have a kid both side should be of great help take that child as your own child and treats him or her with equal rights of yr own kids. don't do it in expect of something in return but for the fact that u love his father.and i belief u will go a long way with a happy family.

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assets are just assets, the most important thing is to have a assets i ain't gonna hook up with a guy of no assets cos that will definately shows me that he ain't a man and he is not ready to take care of me not talking of when god blessed us with a child been it a man or woman one needs to get a asset. am on the same side with u gal keep up the belief

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is good to live in the good side of life and the only way to enjoy dis side of life is to have a black neutral guy that will treats u like a queen.dis involve from the inside of him to the outside everything in him should be black and natural no mixing huh thats a guy every black women should look for i gat one and he is treating me right no joke

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