“How’s a woman going to put on fake hair, fake eyelashes, fake eyebrows, Spanx, high heels, a push-up bra and then want a dude to be real with them?” —Rahmel, 31, single
Anslem says: Sure, men have their own contradictions, like wanting a woman in the streets and a freak in the sheets, but what you see is generally what you get when it comes to guys. Unfortunately, the same isn’t always true for some women. There’s nothing more confusing to us than sitting across from a sister who’s talking about how she needs a real man in her life when all her body-slimming contraptions, layers of makeup and hair extensions conceal what she really looks like. Talk about ironic.