“Why do women watch “Oprah” or read a magazine and start quoting it like it’s the Bible. Better yet, why get relationship advice from the girl with no man?” —Earl, 32, single
Anslem says: Just because someone said something on TV or in a magazine doesn’t mean it’s true—unless, of course, you read it in ESSENCE. Questioning a man’s intentions because of some quiz is just silly. Our relationship was perfectly fine before Oprah or your no-man-having friend got involved, so unless you have some stone-cold proof that I’m doing dirt, there’s no need to rock the boat. You’re dating me, not them.