Real Housewives of Atlanta: Deshawn

Deshawn - I visited your website today and was very impressed. You talked about a lot of topics that I can definitely relate to, and I think you are a very intelligent woman with a great career. However, I must agree that you really shouldn't flaunt your income the way that you do - and you do it very frequently. You don't even notice how boastful you are because you can't see yourself externally. I believe that if you take a look at some of the footage from the show, you will make some adjustments, and putting Lisa down about her husband's non-guaranteed contracts, was just wrong. She already knows that her husband's money isn't guaranteed...so why did you have to throw it in her face? Again, you are too boastful. You are a very spiritual person and seem to be genuine, too. May God continue to bless you and your family, and again, your ostentation is not very becoming., but I still like you...just make some adustments, girl!!

Posted at 2:52PM on November 26th 2008 by RMP

I found the show last night painful to watch DeShawn who states she is a Christian and who wites out her big checks to her church did nothing to help Kim. She has a foundation to "empower" young girls, but Kim was being attacked by everyone and DeShawn just sat there...what if it is not a young black girl she will not empower...even if Kim is white and not a young girl...as a Christian she should have realized that maybe one of God's children (Kim) was hurting and she should have stepped in. She choose to side with a "gossipier) Lisa and an angry women Nena,...who has a non profit for violence against women,..yet she was getting ready to fight Kim... I think all these women are hurting and have twisted hearts.

Posted at 12:25PM on November 26th 2008 by T SMITH

Deshawn appears to have a caring heart. To take the time out to mentor at risk girls says alot about her character. So what if the camera man chose to show the amount of the check she wrote to the church, she wasnt holding the camera. Its good to see that she is giving back thats whats important. I like the fact that she didnt get too wrapped up in the foolishness of the girls bickering with one another. Continue to be an inspiration to your girls, may God bless you and your family, dont let the negative comments about you still your joy!

Posted at 8:38AM on November 25th 2008 by Dana B

Its funny how everyone is talking about his MONEY... as I recall being married for over 10 years myself its not his money, her money its OURS. Deshawn do you, have the housekeeping staff, the personal chef, what every you like. If this works with your family that's all that matter. Remember he's your husband not those haters! Actually Kim and Sheree are the only ones on the show I really don't like.

Posted at 8:17AM on November 25th 2008 by Neworleans finest

Your husband is so handsome. Did he play the child in Eddie's movie "The Golden Child"?

Posted at 4:00PM on November 24th 2008 by Queenie

DeShawn, I must admit that I agree with many of the comments that were made about you. First I must share that I am happy for you. However, I agree that you flaunt your HUSBAND'S money a bit much. Remember that he is the star, not you just because you have his children. I also think its pitiful that you cannot cook. You dont need to hire an entire staff to run your household. I'm sure you were not raised as such. You seem like you have lost yourself and blinded by your HUSBAND'S greatness. Be a wife and mother instead of always bragging about Eric's contract and going to your beauty salon. I will not go there and degrade your physical attributes or lack thereof, but I think it's time that you snap back into reality and realized that he could lose all of that. So do everyone a favor and stop acting so high class and remember where you come from.

Posted at 10:48PM on November 22nd 2008 by Kanisha P.

I must say I am a fan of the show, I am a 32 year old single Black Pediatric Nurse and after a long 8 hour shift. This show makes me laugh. Starting with the intro of the show DeShawn says " I always knew I was destined for GREATNESS". What greatness, your married to a rich MAN, you did't do anything but get married and have babies. Next, SheRAY says "People are jealous of my success". What success, again you married rich and all you kept saying is what type of settlement you want. NeNe you are ghetto, and thats not a bad thing in this case. Because you have a good husband who displays his love and support for you, so live it up girl. Lisa you are smart, thoughtful and beautiful you rocked that photo shoot I love those shoes. Finally, Kim I don't know how you got your money and its NONE MY BUSINESS, HOWEVER you put yourself on tv as a prostitute in front of your children for your imaginary boyfriend. So go head on keep entertaining us ladies, and I'll keep saving babies.

Posted at 7:20AM on November 22nd 2008 by Tonya

I think De'shawn is a bit pretentious. Always be true to yourself De'shawn and others. Even if I had a husband who was in the NBA or NFL, I would always take pride in raising my children, household and being a part of their lives and to not let a nanny do it all. I just think that as a Mother De'shawn should take pride in that. Seems like she does not..The children seem to be a bit out of hand.. Originally, I thought De'shawn was ok. Why did she make a comment about who has a gaurenteed contract. Lisa is right, De'shawn is too extravagant for her own good..Material things are not everything. I bet if Eric had nothing she would not even be in the picture..

Posted at 10:11AM on November 21st 2008 by Gretchen

You ladies need to stop! I have been a "work at home" mom for 5 years- loving and supporting my husband and children. My husband has supported my dreams and any business I've went into. Like DeShawn we've been together since college. Although we aren't anywhere as wealthy as the Snow's, the commitment, love and prayers that I provide my husband is priceless. Eric buying DeShawn jewelry and supporting HER dreams cannot repay for the things that woman has provided for that man. You guys just see what it looks like now. And talking about people's teeth and hair edgies- ooooh how tacky!!

Posted at 7:14PM on November 20th 2008 by Roxy

you need to let go of your hair dresser your hair line is receedingg stop trying to hide it with the baby hair swirl the gel looks cheap you need to go to the dominicans in the ghetto part of atlanta they wil hook you up once again you waste money and writing that greasy head eddie long a check that big you just paying for his house help

Posted at 11:16AM on November 20th 2008 by lovie