As you know, most women plan their exit down to the very last detail! By the time our man finds out it’s over, it’s old news to us. We generally start planning our exit about a year before our boo is brought up to speed. While working out your exit strategy and he starts to get wise to the truth, and asks if you want to break up, simply say, “I want what is best for the both of us. I want us to both be made whole in this relationship.” It’s tender and dramatic AND it will buy you a little time while you’re still sleeping with the enemy!