Once you get out there and decide you’re going to meet new people, you have to remember that for those relationships to develop you need to be attractive to new people. And I’m not talking about attractive as in the right clothes or a hot body, but attractive as in you are open and receptive to meeting new people. As in – a smile. That means dropping the act of toughness we often put on when out in public and checking our defensive body language. Closed arms mean you don’t want to be bothered. A frown means you don’t want to be bothered. But if you’re trying to get bothered by someone who catches your eye, you need to have the right body language. You’re not going to attract someone by scowling at them.