There’s a lot of talk out there about what’s wrong with you. You’re not the right weight,
height, age, race, class, educational background, you don’t have the right career or attitude or personality or clothes to find the love you want. Well, stop. Just stop listening to that noise. It’s garbage. You will get the love you want out of righteous self-love and openness to difference and change. But you know how you won’t get it? By listening to all the media and hype saying you can’t. Hearing what’s wrong may sell papers and get page views, but it doesn’t get you love. Only you can.