Lake advises attached ladies to remain the woman your husband married. Strive to be the woman he wants to come home to rather than the woman he has to come home to.
“Women often lose themselves in marriage. Keep yourself together for yourself. Not just to keep a man. Strive for excellence on your own. Confidence is not about makeup and stilettos. We focus too much on how to keep a man. If he’s gonna cheat, he’s gonna cheat. Focus on you. That is what makes you more attractive. As soon as you appear needy, it’s a wrap.”