No man is a mind reader — even if everything else about him seems “perfect.” Your partner wants to please you, and if he’s not, the first reason to consider is that perhaps he just doesn’t know how to. If your time between the sheets isn’t as good for you as it is for him, say something. Whisper what you want into his ear or just be straight forward over dinner. It doesn’t matter which approach you take, just don’t be afraid to tell him that what he’s doing just isn’t working. He’ll appreciate your honesty and if he’s worth your time, he will practice better pleasing you.