How to Date In Your 20s, 30s, 40s...

I AM A SINGLE 30YR OLD MOTHER MARRIED TO A 6MOS AND 4YR OLD. IT IS HARD OUT THERE TRYING TO BE THE HEAD AND THE TAIL FOR SO, LONG. I WAS MARRIED ONCE AND SCORNED BY IT, NEXT I WAS ENGAGED TO LAST SON'S FATHER BUT, HE STILL WANTED TO PLAY THE FIELD AND NEGLECT ME , ABUSE MY HEART, AND USE ME. NOW I AM ALONE AND WAITING ON GOD TO SEND ME A MAN WHO HAVE STRONG MORALS AND STANDARDS AS MYSELF. LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE JUMPING AROUND FROM THIS AND THAT PERSON. IT IS TIME TO SETTLE DOWN AND BECOME THE MAN GOD MADE YOU AND BE RESPONSIBLE AND LOVE ONE WOMAN. IT DOESN'T PAY TO CHEAT ESPECIALLY LOVE IS A SERIOUS THING AND WHEN THAT MAN DOES ARRIVE HE WILL LOVE ME UNCONDITIONALLY AND TAKE CARE OF ME AND MY KIDS. I WILL LOVE HIM THE SAME. MEN IT IS TIME TO PUT YOUR PRIDE AND EGO TO THE SIDE BECAUSE ANOTHER MANS TRASH AS YOU CALL US SOMETIMES COULD BE THE NEXT MAN'S TREASURE!

Posted at 9:47PM on September 21st 2009 by APRIL B.

I am 27, with two young children, just got out of a bad marriage. I guess i feel like dating is just a complete waste of time and energy. You can date someone for two years and still not know them! What I found out after I got married was that a person will only show you what they want to show you about themselves, until you make that commitment of marriage, and then that's when their true colors show. Isn't the purpose of dating getting to know someone? How can you truly get to know a person if they are hiding the truth?

Posted at 12:02AM on September 20th 2009 by Mo

I am a 33 year old single parent of one precious daughter.. I have been through alot throughout my years with picking bad guys anyway, I dated this guy bout 5 years ago had fun, was happy but he went away. Now hes back and he came to see me, we been dating now for 5 months and i really care about him Possibly luv him BUT he recently told me he was married but i don't want to give up AM i wrong?? he pursude me again. He hardly sees her but spends most of his time with me..i gave up on him b4 but now im stuck on him. Signed : Love hurts..

Posted at 8:39AM on September 19th 2009 by CONFUSED IN THE BX

What do you do if your husband says F***K You? I find this text very disrepectful to me. He does it occasionally and even after i told him how I feel about it. I don't like it and now I am ready to leave him because he doesn't care.

Posted at 6:45PM on September 10th 2009 by ladylove

What do you do if your husband says F***K You? I find this text very disrepectful to me. He does it occasionally and even after i told him how I feel about it. I don't like it and now I am ready to leave him because he doesn't care.

Posted at 6:44PM on September 10th 2009 by ladylove

I don't even want to get married anymore. I done gave up. 1/3 of our men in jail from a _ucked up childhood. 1/3 lazy, dumb and cheap. 1/3 married. Where does that leave you?

Posted at 9:04AM on September 10th 2009 by forty-eight

Don't be discouraged by statistics because if you do, you will become one. Write down what you want in a men. Look high and low, then hold God to his word. Or hold the word over your situation and watch what happens.

Posted at 8:57AM on September 10th 2009 by india

TYPE YOUR MESSAGE HEREAnswer this question i need help because this man waiting thing is getting boring. I deserve a great man, but here is the issue. Why are men more attractive to your girlfriends than to you. My girlfriend recently divorced, self issues, gorgeous, beautiful kids, living at home with her mother, codependant. I love her dearly but just looking at her issues, men still want to be with her, becauses she is pretty. I am average looking, educated, own home, handsome son, work hard to sustain household. I am not as promiscuous as she and other girlfriends who get their men by sex first, ask questions later. What is the deal?

Posted at 1:24PM on August 10th 2009 by chrisy

I like how this lady stepped out of the box to find her potential mate. check her site 52weeks2findhim I understand I am in the season for a reason. Also view this site: wordcity org/2009/07/24/hot-summer-series Pastor R A vernon is really speaking to us singles....I fast forward the first 15 minutes to get to the meet of the sermon.

Posted at 10:41PM on August 3rd 2009 by Special K

Dating in Atlant has its challenges. I tried online dating and it seems most are looking for a booty call. Now that I in my late 30's I find looks are not all the important verse a man with purpose. I have stepped out the box and took up a new hobby which is learning to pay golf and ladies I tell you, I get more potential dates at the range then at the gym, book store and church. Give it a try and you may even like golf.

Posted at 10:30PM on August 3rd 2009 by Special K