Color of Love: Celebs in Interracial Relationships

I would like to say; Where are you meeting these men? Are you only interested in Football players, Rappers, Frat Boys? Also not having babies out of weblock if you aren't good enuff to marry surely you shouldn't want his child. Further more I too believe there is a lot of self-hate on the part of these women. What's the problem, you all wamt to look like Halle?

Posted at 6:11PM on November 2nd 2008 by Toia

Some of these comments reeks of self-hate. I have no problem with interracial couples. It's done of my business. I perferred Black men as a Black woman I am in my comfort zone. As many others do of various ethnic groups and would attest to, Many sista's are looking for a King, when themselves are no Queens. Water seeks it;s own level. I met my husband at a Black art festival through mutural friends from college. I didn't meet him at a Club or Church. The formention are what I call extreme when meeting someone, because each carry a cautionary tale that is too numerous to get into at this post. However, the negative images shown on T.V are just one aspect of our cutlural.

Posted at 6:00PM on November 2nd 2008 by Urban Habuki

i am glad when i see a black man with a white woman. i believe that saves another sista from alot of heartaches.

Posted at 5:57PM on November 2nd 2008 by brenda

@Lily. Maybe it's just demographics because here in Orlando that's what I see. Also, I've noticed as a "good black man" that most black women initially date, have kids and give their all to the worst of black men (the thugs, those who can't provide and unfaithful) while ignoring the good black men who may not be so "down" or "flashy". THEN, after three kids, bad credit from the no good brothers and a bunch of other baggage they finally want a good brother who is looking at them like "Hell no!" You women choose to date those no good brothers and then want to get mad at all brothers. I'm a mental health professional and I can diagnose most of you with something, but mainly PTSD, Post Traumatic Slave Disorder. Good luck in your interracial dating, but until you truly fix yourselves you will never be happy, no matter the color of your man.

Posted at 2:33AM on November 2nd 2008 by Torey

Torey thats funny because most of the black women I see with white men tend to be the natual ones

Posted at 2:25AM on November 2nd 2008 by lily

According to most posts here lets agree upon one thing. Black men and Black women are poison to each other so they should not be together anyway. According to these posts, White men treat Black men better than Black men treat Black women, and from experience, I know White women treat Black men better than Black women treat Black man. In real life, not celebrity life, most Black women I see with White men I would NEVER date anyway (they're either ugly or are trying hard to be white anyway... blue contacts, fake hair, etc.).

Posted at 1:00AM on November 2nd 2008 by Torey

First, interracial dating is never so questioned or glorified by White people the way it is by Black people. Who cares who dates who, you do you. Second, IMHO most Black men are tired of dealing with the stereotypical Black women, and White men find it new and exciting.and hats off to them, but after dealing with your self-righteous behinds for as long as we have, they won't choose you much either. Guess you'll have to go to Hispanic or Asian men until they tire of you too. IMHO.

Posted at 12:44AM on November 2nd 2008 by Torey

Wow! Black women who are happy and in love. I like it.

Posted at 7:26PM on November 1st 2008 by anonymous

I wonder why the White media is not as fascinated by interracial unions as Blacks are? Would Cosmo or Voque devote a whole article on succeful Whites who have married Blacks? Not hardly! If it is true love God bless them! One thing I noticed is both parties are highly successful professionals. The men and most of the women are accomplished. When Black successful men marry interracially their wives credentials are not highlighted. Why not?

Posted at 12:10AM on November 1st 2008 by Mel

well i have dated black men all my life and basically i'm tired of the same ol same ol excuses excuses they don't want nothing out of life walking through life complaing all the time won't work ,won't take care of their kids but walk off and take care of somebody's else's seed,never satisfied with you giving them all of you o no they have to go out and cheat with a "hoodrat" and treat her better than you and you've been there for him thru thick and thin they're are liars and cheaters and mostly always looking for a free meal and a roof with benefits i've started dating white men so far so good just testing the waters to see what's out there so do you women "LOVE COMES IN ALL COLORS AS DO WE"

Posted at 10:13PM on October 31st 2008 by keke