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Chris needs to shut up and reflect, he is making an idiot of himself. Somebody needs to embrace.. Go to church and pray Chris "Lord help this young man to see the error of his ways, help to seek your guidance on his life, renew and refresh him, that from this day forward he will live a redeemed life and be a positive role model to others, in Jesus name AMEN!

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We know exactly what happened Chris Brown was violent and he attacked Rihanna that is a fact period. Whatever. It is quite annoying when people keep saying we don't know what happened that night. You sound like a beaten person stop with the bull excuses. Rihanna broke her silent and that was brave thing to do and I applaud her for it. It showed that she is strong and is hurt because she is human. Kudos to Rihanna. and I hope Chris would find a way to shut his big mouth. He doesn't have a copy right to Rihnna's life and what she will say and won't say regarding their relationship. He is dumb enough to try to resolve argument through violence so whats new from this so precious young man blah blah

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I feel that people are spending too much time demonizing this young man. While i do not condone physical violence in a relationship we still dont know what really happened. I feel that Chris has made great effort to show remorse. I do think that people made more of an issue on this matter because he is a black male. There have been many cases of white males in music tv sports and other arena's and not once have i heard people banning their music, movies, shows or games. All i am saying is in this society our black men have a much higher price to pay for their mistakes. Chris Brown is no saint and what he did was WRONG but i do believe he at some point has to be allowed to live his life. I speak from experience. I spent a few years in an abusive relationship. I just feel he doesnt have to live it everyday for the rest of his life. Of course that is as long as he doesnt do it again. ;)

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I am saddened about the problems Chris Brown and Rihanna have...Chris is in a sticky situation because he is a celebrity and a black man and he hit a woman...we were taught at a young age to keep our hands to ourselves....we do not know what actually happened in that truck that night except for Chris and Rihanna...we only have what was said...I was in a abusive relationship and thank God I had the strength to get out of it...the feelings did not go away just like that...I pray that Chris and Rihanna can grow from this and move on...no matter what I am a fan of them both...it is a learning experience and they both can hepl others that are going through or have gone through situations of domestic violence...they are young and beautiful...they will make it through.

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Chris made a stupid mistake which he is still paying for.he is not the monster Oprah and co are making him 2 be.Rhianna is not a saint as violence begets violence she should also apologized 4 starting the altercation.as 4 Oprah she is just a mere human,she should stop playing God.

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They both need to go through counseling for domestic abuse. We as women, need to be held accountable for our actions as well as men. If we do not want to be hit then we should not hit or push men to the point of wanting to hit. I do not agree with Chris hitting her but I do not agree with her slapping and hitting him either.I am glad God judges me and not man!

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I have been in a abusive relationship. For several months now I have taken domesic violence classes where their were men being abusive to women and women being abusive to men. I feel that it is wrong for everyone to focus on the abuse that Chris did to her from what I read she was the abuser first. I am not saying that it was right for him to put his hands on her but they both were equally at fault. She is no innocent victim. My advice to Rhinna is that she should be careful who she decides to put her hands on because the next man may do way worse to her.

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i don't believe in a man hitting a woman, but if a woman hit a man then she deserve to get hit back. don't put your hands on someone if your not prepared to get it in return. i'm teaching my son to not to hit a woman, but not to a jackass and leave a woman brutalize him either because i will come after her. the sad part about it is that she didn't beat up his ass. i know iwould have killed his ass. definately kill him no doubt about it. he would have been in a body bag.

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@Mya: Actually we do comment when someone gets shot and gather FACTS about what and how things happened. She had her crazy self in the car slapping the crap out of him. THAT'S WRONG AS WELL!! Women need to take acocountability for what we do and stop always playing victim! Yes, he needs to continue counseling because on Larry King he says he does not remember hitting her AND THAT'S A PROBLEM!!! However, we can't just throw him in the gutter just like we can't do that to her. They need counseling and prayer. If Chris continues to do this with NO remorse that's a problem, but if he is trying then who are we to judge him and throw away the key as if we are God. God does not do that with us with our failures!!

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Chris was very wrong for hitting/hurting her; that is a no no in my book. I have sons and I do not allow or I better not hear of it if they put their hands on a women. They will have to answer to me and they would rather the police pick them up instead of me finding them. There is one thing I did not believe when I saw Raihanna with suppose to be bruises on her face. That looked like make-up so evenly place on both sides of her face. I think someone tried to make it looked worst than what it really was. I think they had a fight and he hit her which was wrong, but don't try lie about what happen because the truth will eventually come out sooner or later. I pray that they both find peace in God.

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