I am not shocked about what I had read about these men today. I just don't understand how in the world can men do the things they do and feel like a real, good, decent woman want them anyway. I think men like that is use to project women. Women who don't know any better. I know one thing, I work, go to school, and take care of two kids. I don't have time. Maybe one day God will sent that some one special in my life. I hope that day is real soon. I know that I have plenty of stories to tell about how these men are but I don't have enough room. I know that alot of women have a lot of stories to tell about a man.

I am lmao! Just when you think you are the only one, you see, read or hear something like this and it lets you know you are not alone! just keep dating, having fun and be careful. Who knows maybe a reality show may come of it!

Sisters, I see everyone has had a bad date experience. Can anyone tell me where the decent brothers are located.

I can understand what these ladies have been through.. I went to this guys house to watch the new Kat Williams comedy show..well needless to say.. these guy excused himself to the batheroom.. next thing I know he comes out of the batheroom w/ no clothes on asking me can we cuddle..I demanded him to take me home.. and we arguing all the way home.. he still calls me but I don't answer

THE GOOD THING ABOUT THESE LADIES ARE, THEY SAW IT COMING AND VAMPED. THE SAD THING IS.... SOME OF YA'LL ARE STILL WITH THE SORRY BROTHERS. IS IT YOU!

TYPE YOUR MESSAGE HERE LADIES I TRUELY UNDERSTAND WHAT A BAD DATE IS ONE DAY I GIVE A PARTY WITH SOME OF MY CO WORKER FROM WORK AND THERE WAS THIS GUY FROM WORK WHO I THOUGHT WAS INTO ME BUT NEITHER THE LESS TO SAY I HAVE A GREAT PARTY EVERY ONE HAVING FUN 2/3 HOURS INTO THE PARTY HERE COMES 6 CARS FULL OF WOMEN WHICH WAS HIS GIRLFRIEND HE CLAIM HE DIDNT HAVE AND THEY CLAIM HE HAD INVITED THEM BUT I KICKED HIM OUT AND THEN THEY END UP FIGHTING IN WHICH RIGHT NOW TODAY WE STILL TALK AND HE WANTS A RELATIONSHIP BUT FOR ONE I DONT TRUST HIM AND TWO I DONT FIGHT OVER NO MEN THERE A GOOD ONE OUT HERE SOMEWHERE IM JUST WAITING FOR GOD TO SEND HIM MY WAY .......

Wow, and I thought I had gone on some bad blind dates...my attitude is...there are still some good Black men out there, but you gotta kiss a few frogs before you finally get to that prince! Just like God made Eve for Adam, God has made someone especially for each and every one of us! Let us all stay encouraged and keep up our standards.

I wiLl Never go on a BlInd date ANYMOre.. man.. I had the hardest time.. I had went out w. someone i didn't even know i meet him thur a friend.. friend never told me what he look like so i was like he sounds bomb he gotta b a looker,,,,sike i was wrong.. I will never date any one i just dont know u will never catch me on a blind date again...

I am so glad I am not alone. I thought I attracted some creeps. I just had a horrible experience this weekend. It's very sad situation these days.

Yeah, sadly to say that these ladies have been dealt a bad rap by some terrible men, but there was only 1 story I read that measured up to my terrible date: The man took me to a homeless shelter for dinner....I'm not kidding either.

OK enough is enough!! You sisters are looking for a good man? Key word LOOKING!! That's your problem God will send you a man just for you with all the requirements he knows you deserve.Just make sure your ready!! complete within yourself don't ask for nothing that your not!! Stop looking wait on God!! Remember a MAN only does what you allow him to do to you!! Pray for the Best and Deal with the Rest!!!!!

Hey my sistas! All these stories were comical, especially Yamaneika's! Girl, there is NOTHING like ruining a good wig! But seriously, I am with you ladies on this subject. I have had similar experiences, including a man who said "he'd look good in my car" and another who claimed disability because "he made more money than some do in a month". This saddens me, but I have faith God will send the right man to us all. I'm praying for us! In the meantime ladies, don't take no junk from these mama's boys. Don't even let the cuss at you---otherwise, later on, they want to start hitting you! If we reject them, they will stay "sangle" or straighten up! Hang in there! Mo

For the critics, understand some women don't choose losers but accept them becuase they're hopeful the guy is a prince underneath the orange hair or average looks. Some of us disregarded our values because we have been chastised by well-meaning friends who called us snooty for not wanting to date a broke down brotha. I went out with a no class, low class Kentucy hillbilly because I felt guilty about turning my back on a black man trying to make it. Black guilt hangs heavy. But, the chance I took got me beat up and put my sexual health at risk. I don't care what friends or family say especially the married ones. Ladies never ever compromise your values. Let your friends and family call you stuck up or what have you. No man is worth your dignity or your health. Fortunately, the loser I accepted into my life taught me all I need to know about avoiding trouble. Yes, there are good men out there, but women have to hold true before he comes along.

Women, Don't give up on our men. I once felt like there weren't anymore good men but there are. I dated alot too but just be the best YOU can be and he will FIND YOU!! Trust in the Lord!!!--Don't setlle for nothing but the best!!!. I'm a witness to this because I have a man that I truly LOVE and who really LOVES me!!!!

HOW CAN I GET IN CONTACT WITH MS.SHAKURA TOLLIVER. I WOULD LOVE TO SHOW HER A GREAT TIME ON A DATE.