I went out with a guy that seemed very nice. It was a blind date and when I saw him he was very unattractive. However he thought I was gorgeous and I silently wanted to puke. Anyway, It was New Years and we were suppossed to go out. Needless to say he was so broke and he did not have a car. We went went to his families house, which turned out to be that he was living with his grandma in a senior citizen home. And his 100 year old grandma is smoking a cigarette.(WOW) To top it off, his cousin walks in and comments on how I was pretty. They literally started fighting. I could not believe it. I stepped over them and left. He tried to follow me but i was faster than he was. He called me but I turned my cell phone off.

My worst date tops all of these. I went out with a guy that I had a bad feeling about. He suggested we go to a local bar that was smoke filled. Not only did he show up late, but he smoked also and refused to meet somewhere else. The conversation was horrible and when I thought it could not get any worse, he attempted to dismiss me. That is until he got a view of my butt which he referred to as "new money". We go on the patio to talk and then it happened, what I thought was a cuff link had dropped on the ground. I focused in and saw it was a few teeth from out of his mouth. He scooped them up and put them back in his mouth and continued to talk. That is when I had to say good night, and I have not spoken to him.

ladies, please understand that white doesn't necessarily mean better. i recently went on a date with a what seemed to be educated, career-set white guy and i ended up paying because he only intended to spend $25 on the date that he somehow failed to make mention of in previous conversations. now i don't who is worse!

But if you paid for the ticket, WHYYYYYY? I would have left him, his baby mama and kids at the movies with no way to get in. Sometimes a sister or girlfriend may be available to catch a good movie.

Honey, if he left you with the tap you really don't need an explanation.

I should have had some of my dating horror stories featured. Like the time this lame brought his brother on a double with us and my friend, his little bro turned out to be 15!

Ladies have you ever thought about dating a white guy? I'm a white guy that happens to find all types of women attractive. I've dated most ethnicities. I would never let a woman pay for a date. If she offered I would politley say no... thats not how i was brought up. I hear alot of stories about no good men out there. I think of myself as a catch...I LOVE dancing. I have a car, savings account and a career. I've never cheated on a girlfriend. Never been married and don't have any children yet. (and I'm 37.) We are out there... don't give up on us.

I went on a first date with a young lady. It was a blind date also. I am 6'3 300lbs muscular build. She arrives at the restaurant, I help her take her coat off. We are sitting and making small talk when she pulls out this butterfly knife and stabs the table. She looks at me and tell me I am a big boy, but she could slice me open 100 ways in the blink of an eye. I was too embarrassed to breath.

LOL Sabrina, that too funny blue leather with orange perm, Oh, Hell no! I would've laughed and walk away.

Sonya, I would've cussed his ass out right there but here what you shoud've to be classy :(told him and his baby mama "I never seen this man before in my life" and walked away) seen the movie alone or called one of yur girls up and went to the next showing.

I use to live in Atlanta.if you aint a dope boy and your pants arent hanging off your butt,and you dont have goldor platinum teeth a black woman does not want to be bothered with you!! but soon as they see you with a white one they want to roll there eyes.I like black women but they are too materialistic

LOL!!! All I can say is stick to your guns ladies. Don't compromise your standards and you will meet the right one for you. It's the long road but it's worth it.

Wow...what losers, but I'm suprised that some of you ladies didn't stop these jokers at the front door. I can't judge though because I've been married for a while and my husband has always been a gentleman to me. I hear a lot of my single friends complain about how hard it is just to find a decent brotha, let alone one with a job and some morales. I say don't give up. They are out there and they are looking for you!!!!

Laughter is the best medicine! I too have had some very bad first dates. But you know, I just call my girls on the way home (in my own car), and share the joke and we laugh until our guts hurt. I mean, what else can you do really. I used to get mad as heck, but now, I just use it as material! One tip... when you order your food and drinks, be sure to have the money to pay for what YOU order. If he tries to pull the old "I left may wallet story", wish him luck on paying for his.

C'mon...are ya'll trying to tell me that ya'll didn't know that some of these dudes are wack??? Why do ya'll not give the decent brothas a chance and entertain trifflin dudes?.....holla at cha boy..