He wants you to tell him how to better satisfy you sexually.
Yes, we would be extremely gratified if right from the beginning we could figure out on our own what turns you on and makes you get the most out of an intimate encounter. But sometimes we just aren’t making the right connection and what we think is working for you really isn’t. Go ahead and give us a little coaching if we don’t ask for it. We want the coaching, but our egos make it difficult to ask for help.