15 (Guy Approved!) Ways to Have the Best First Date Ever
Bring the Real You Along
A lot of people are reluctant to be themselves from the outset for fear of rejection....
A lot of people are reluctant to be themselves from the outset for fear of rejection. Being yourself from the beginning is the best thing you can do. (This means you should stop thinking about “the kind of girl he’d probably like” right now, and just show up as yourself.) It allows you to find out if he is comfortable with your personality. There may be times where there just isn’t a significant spark as a result of conflicting personalities, and that’s perfectly OK. The sooner you become aware of this the better.