Its fine to want a man but when you get to a place where you feel that you need one, you should start to worry. A man can sense desperation, and when he does, he will either walk away or pounce. It’s a dangerous thing to deem a man’s attention and affection more valuable than the personal standards you have put in place. When the wrong man gets the sense that you need him he will give you hell. You need to quote your inner Angela Bassett, and tell him “Don’t think you’re special. You may be cute, but not special”.