Many self-help books claim to offer you relationship rescue based on the hottest scientific research. And many newspaper articles publicizing new findings offer headlines ranging from the over-hyped to the ridiculous. When you read about a new study, do a little research before taking it at face value. We are all individuals -— including our brains -— and it’s hard to extrapolate the science into hard and fast love rules that can guarantee you a happily-ever-after. Do your homework and be wary of any “science” that tells you that you must do this or do that in order to find love.